I was sat on the train on my way home from work last night, when a young couple opposite me caught my eye. They were having an argument, but at the same time trying not to draw attention to themselves. From what I could make out, the guy was saying some pretty horrible things to his girlfriend.
After around 5 minutes of this, he gave up berating her and closed his eyes to take a nap. She then spent the next few minutes looking into space, tears welling up in her eyes, thinking and reflecting. She then put on some headphones and placed her head in her hands. She kept this pose for the remainder of my journey.
During this time, my heart and head were racing. What should I do!? I felt I had to do something. Somebody was alone, in distress, looking like they needed support.
It's a brave thing to speak out, but I hurriedly scanned through the possible options open to me. Should I confront her boyfriend? Should I console her? Should I mention it to the person sat next to me to garner some opinion? Did they even see it? Or simply, should I do nothing? That's was the easiest option and the one everybody else seemed to choose.
As I approached my train stop, I made my move. I lightly touched the woman's arm to catch her attention. When she lifted her head and opened her reddened eyes, I looked into them and simply said, as lovingly as possible, "Are you OK?"
She smiled, and in a soft thankful voice, said "Yes, thank you".
You see, sometimes that's all somebody needs. To be acknowledged. To be heard. To know, that a random stranger feels their pain. A random act of kindness, however small, makes a big difference.
Today she may reflect on what happened. She may replay the scene and realize what I saw. She may just step outside of herself and notice what's showing up in her relationship. She may just make a change.
When you are out and about today and see an opportunity for a random act of kindness, however small, take it! If we all do it, every day, then the world begins to change.
Please share this with others and let's change the world, one random act of kindness at a time. Thank you.
By Matt Turner
www.seedslifecoaching.com
Life Coach for Creative, Professional Women at Seeds Coaching
Like my Facebook page for stories just like this.
Sign up for a FREE webinar demonstration of life coaching LIVE on air!
No comments:
Post a Comment